Good morning, all, here we are at Thursday again and that means a little more about Borderline Personality Disorder or BPD for short. This week we are having a look at impulse control.
Everyone has impulsive moments when we do things without thinking through the consequences but those with BPD it is a right struggle.
These people often have issues
with drinking and/or drug use, my sister is a recovering drug addict, and she
still struggles with drinking too much.
They may also struggle with binge eating or purging, promiscuity and compulsive sex, don’t know if Sue has this problem but I suspect she might. Lastly there is compulsive shopping or gambling. I don’t think Sue gambles, but she may have a problem with compulsive shopping, she does own 25 handbags.
These impulsive actions are a way of soothing intense emotions or trying to escape a bad experience.
Such impulsive actions can explain why those with BPD often have other mental health issues and can also connect with poor financial and physical health.
Now it doesn’t take a genius to
realise that such impulsive behaviour can create more problems. Or to know that
trying to escape emotions doesn’t change or fix anything and will not stop the
pain that can follow. It can also cause more consequences which can lead to the
BPD suffer to react by lashing out at others, or engaging in even more
impulsive behaviour or as is often the case with Sue they become extremely
depressed.
There have been studies that suggest those with BPD may have abnormalities in the part of the brain responsible for emotional and impulsive control. It is also believed that decreased activity in the prefrontal cortex, which is common among those with BPD, contributes to certain aspects of impulsivity.
It can be quite a challenge for those with BPD to control their impulsive behaviour but with treatment and strategies they can pretty much keep it under control and lead a somewhat healthy life.
A lot of work for them, but really worth the effort. Doesn't medication help sometimes, too?
ReplyDeleteSue said at first it helped more then it does now she is going to talk to her doctor about that
DeleteToo many people just shrug and say, "They just don't want to change." Sometimes they physically can't. Another excellent job of pulling back the curtain.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Sue is doing her best most of the time but there are times when she wonders why bother.
DeleteI think the effort to get it under control is worth it.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes for your sister, she is on the right track
She is, shed just needs to stay on track
DeleteSuch a strange and sad disorder, Jo-Anne, isn't it? Blessings!
ReplyDeleteYes it is and thank you for dropping by
DeleteThank you for sharing this informative information. My prayers go out to your sister. ((HUGS))
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading it
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