Do you have adult children?
Do they all have keys to your home?
Can they let themselves in whenever they want?
Take whatever they need when they need it and leave a note telling you so
I have keys to my parents house have always done since I was given a key when I was 18, my brother and youngest sister also have keys but my other two sisters don't,why you ask well they left home before they were given keys.
Tim said when he was a teenager he had a key to his mum's house but when he left home his mum took the key back.