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So
last night I said to Tim what time do you get home from work tomorrow
(today) I am sure as hell he said 2am which I knew wouldn't be right
so I said what time do you start the afternoon run, didn't you say
you had a split shift, his reply yeah I do I will get home around
10ish and leave again at 1ish and be home again by 4.15pm all this
was said in a normal not a problem tone, however, if when I thought
he said 2am I had said what or why so late he would have got into a
mood about me not listening. Being a woman I use my brain and try
and work out what was said and not what I heard, using a little
common sense, or ask something else to try and figure out what was
said and not just go “what” in a tone that pisses the other
person off, which the men in my life do, meaning Tim and Dad and my
baby brother Dave those men.
This
morning I got pretty mad with Leo over nothing really, after I went
off I calmed down and said sorry at first he wouldn't talk to me but
by the time we got to his school he was ok and gave me a hug and kiss
goodbye. I think it was just because Blain and Leo were playing
running around and making a lot of noise and just doing my head in.
Yesterday
I was in so much pain it was the lower right hand side of my back, I
could barely move due to the pain but I still cooked a full breakfast
for the family, however, Tim said he wasn't hungry and ate nothing
and Natasha was a no show as is often the case. I was in so much pain
that I threw the washing in the dryer instead of hanging it out on
the line at one point Tim said why you got he dryer on when its not
raining any more, I had to remind him that I was in a lot of pain and
could hardly moved also said to him how often do I use the dryer over
the clothes line, not very often that is how often and if he had been
home I would have asked him to hang the clothes out but he wasn't
home he was out at Kathy's place.
Anyway
because I was in so much pain and could hardly move he said I was
acting older then I was, yeah I was in a lot of pain back pain isn't
nice and if he had a lot of pain he would act the same.
I know how horrible that is. I've never had back pain before but a few weeks ago I did for 2 days. Every time I moved I cringed, it's no way to live.
ReplyDeleteNo it's not I am doing better yesterday and today but not 100% yet
DeleteWhen I miss something like that, I tend to make a joke of it. Tim would prolly get mad at me too.
ReplyDeleteYeah he often doesn't have a sense of humour
DeleteSounds likeee a crummy week. :(
ReplyDeleteFelt like it
DeleteSorry. "like". I still can't see well--LOL!
ReplyDeleteUntil you mentioned the typo I hadn't noticed it............101
DeleteOw, back pain is the worst. I hope it's better now. I probably would've asked my hubby to throw the laundry in the dryer for me. Meh, who am I kidding? He's the one who does the laundry. I do the cooking. hahaha Feel better soon, Jo-Anne and get some rest!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry that you are having back pain. Hope you are feeling better as I am so late reading posts from last week.
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