Scattering Love is it enough

"It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells the sort of life you have lived.

I like this quote and it made me think what do I scatter and what it tells to others.

I like to think of myself as a non judgemental person and always have said that it is not my place to judge people and if someone is doing something that God maynot approve of then it will be up to God to pass judgement not me......................

This is something hubby doesn't get he is a very judemental person and often will paint heaps of people with the same brush such as people who are gay he has often judged them and in fact when he worked with a man who was gay a few years back he was suprised that he seemed just like a regular guy.........................lol

I do have a habit of mothering people and many of my daughters friends call me "mum" or in the case of my nieces friends who have been here with my niece they call me "Aunty Jo" as well although often my niece will call me "mum" also............

I feel I was born to be a mother although it has not always come easy to me and had many times when I did not know how much more I could take and it seemed so hard and I felt like a failure as a mother...............yes there have been times even recently that I have felt like a failure but thankfully those times are few and far between.............

So what do I scatter...........love, compassion and understanding...................is that enough I don't know.