Unforgiving

Do you have a family member who as a child was a right bitch or bastard and because of that they have a problem getting along with certain family members because family members find it hard to forget, forgive and move on………………

In my family my mother has a long memory and she cannot seem to get over how my niece Heather treated her mother when she was a child. Yes Heather was a terrible child and yes she did hit her mother and siblings and she knows she was not the best child but she cannot go back change anything, all she can do is strive to be a better person as she gets older.

Heather is now the mother of three beautiful children and she has for the most part a pretty good relationship with her mother, yes they fight and yes there are times I think she doesn’t treat her mum right but hey my girls leave a lot to be desired when it come to the way they treat me at times.

I think the big problem is that my mum never really got to see Sue’s children while they were growing up so she has never had that close bond with them. When Sue’s kids where little they lived an hour away and only came down to see the family a couple a times a year and even then they were distant most likely because they rarely saw us and maybe they didn’t feel that closeness that the rest of us feel.

I would love to see all of Sue’s kids attend more family functions and I would love for my parents to see that they have grown into good hearted loving and kind adults.

If any of them read this then I hope they know that Aunty Jo loves them and is proud of the adults they have grown into…………