Tuesday, 15 May 2012

What Do You Think About How You Look???????????

What would you change about yourself physically?

Are you happy with you?

 Do you think you are too short, or too tall?

Most women think they are too fat at some point in their life, I am no different I am a short, fat middle aged woman............

That said I for the most part like the way I look, there is nothing wrong with my hair or my eyes or the fact that I am short 4'11" yes I would like to be slimmer and yes I have times when I would love to take a knife and slice off all the fat parts of my body but of course I don't. Why well there would be a lot of bloody and such a mess to clean up oh yeah and I would end up in hospital with people concerned about my mental health............lol So not something I will do.......lol

Now I also don't mind the look of my hands although I am sure at some point I will end up looking at my mums hands as I can see how my mums hands have become my nans hands. My feet are ok too although they are also small and a bit fat or maybe I should say wide are feet fat or just wide I don't know but whatever they are I have them...............

My teeth are kind of yellowish and I am missing a number of them which is why I have false teeth for eating and my lips are small but hell I am a small woman and I think my lips are the right size for me..................lol

Tim is not happy with how he looks he thinks he is too short at 5'2" and often wishes he was taller even though I say if he was taller I don't think I would want to be with him as I like the fact that I can look into his eyes more or less. Other then his height he seems pretty happy with himself except for his penis which he thinks is too small, why I don't know but I guess it is like how some women think their boobs are too small. My boobs are fine kind of just the right size for me...........lol

Back to me sometimes I think my bum is too big but if I put something on and look in the mirror and think my bum looks huge I change my clothes and wear something else...............like most women...............lol

Women worry about their bums and boobs, men worry about their height and penis size............

Who agrees with me????????????????????


  1. That is very true. Most times we worry so much about what we look like that we don't notice other people so much.
    I always have hated my eyes. They don't focus together and one or the other always turns in. I am very self conscious about it and am not good at looking people in the eye because of it.

  2. us=bum+boobs them=height+penis...i agree! lol i'm someone who tries to improve anything I don't like about myself. i know i look fine, but if it's as easy as getting a haircut or exercising more, why shouldn't I? hehe btw, I'm having a 100+ Follower Urban Decay Giveaway! I hope you enter :)♥

  3. This whole post cracked me up. You are HILARIOUS! HAHAHAAA! I love that you like how you look for the most part.

    I like how I look usually. But I am way too hard on myself. Sometimes I really hate that my hair is thin and that my thighs have some cellulite on the back. I find lots of stuff to complain about which is dumb. I'm healthy and in good shape. I should just be happy.

  4. no one is ever happy with what they have, that's human nature. as for tim thats the same reason women want big boobs cause they THINK life would be better if they were endowed. i blame media/porn cause the guys there are freaks and they film from angles that make them look even bigger. the average penis when erect is 6 inches i'd say the average porn penis is 8 to 9 so comparatively most guys come up "short" lol

  5. Your posts are always a breath of fresh air! For the most part, I am happy with how I look. I work out 5 times a week and I wish I could get rid of some of my behind, but I think it's here to stay. My husband's very happy with me and I am healthy, so I shouldn't complain at all.

  6. Dearest Jo-Anne,
    As you've already known, I am tiny and hubby has handicap with his both legs. So we both have a sense of inferiority for how we look(^^;)
    I think it important for a couple to understand the feeling toward the shortcoming and cover for it. I appreciate my hubby for it, hehe.
    Let's not worry about the appearance and refine inner self.
    I hope I could put down correctly what I want to say in English.
    Love you always, xoxo Miyako*

  7. LOL! I am having a big problem with the way I look right now. I have gained weight and I am having a really tough time losing it. I don't want to be skinny...just not have this huge muffin top....UGH!
    Blessings, Joanne

  8. I've never liked the way i looked I think because everyone around me has always told me what could be better that I never thought I looked good enough. someone is always telling me i'm to short or to fat or not pretty enough no one has ever told me i'm beautiful or perfect as i am so I try to do that with my son I don't ever want him to feel bad about himself.

  9. I didn't worry about my boobs as much as I did my baby gut after I popped out three kids. I'm 5'2" and used to be picked on as a kid for how tiny I am but then as I got older guys found it nice that they could "wrap me up" in their arms.

    It's funny because just today I wrote a comment on my blog that I feel better now, in my 40s than I did in my 20s. Not sure why. And, it's not always...

  10. Ruth......Yes I think many people wonder around and are so worried about how they look they don't see other people around them......

    Lexi......Nothing wrong with changing some of the little things about us if doing so will make us feel better about ourselves........

    Crystal....You look so good in your photos it is hard to imagine you not likeing something about yourself.....

    Tim.......Yeah I think you are right about porn making men think bigger penis size is the norm I believe God made us all just how we are suppose to be

    Shelly......Thank you I wish I had the motavation to work out more then I do......

    Miyako......Yes I think you said that just right, my husband loves me jus the way I am and I feel the same as he does. I love him just the way he is.......

    Joanne.....I think most women want to lose weight as some point in their lives, it has taken me a long time to love me just the way I am

    Becca.....Thankfully I have never been put down in that way and I have never said negative things to my girls. I have always told them that I love them just the way they are and that they are the way they God wants them to be........

    Elsie......You know I never thought of myself as being short maybe because my parents are both short so to me it was just normal the way we are............



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