Thursday, 10 May 2012

I Had A Nightmare And I Didn't Like It.................

Last night I had a nightmare now I don't have nightmares very often but last nights dream was one. I don't remember much of it just bits and pieces but here is what I can remember. I dreamt that I wished my life was different.............NOW THIS IS NOT SOMETHING I WANT I LOVE MY LIFE JUST THE WAY IT IS.......................

Ok back to the dream I somehow made this wish and poof my life is different, I am no longer married to Tim, I don't have children, I have a problem with drugs, my dad is dead he died from the lung cancer and I don't get along with my siblings..............I could remember my normal life during this dream and after a bit I went and said I didn't want this life I wanted my life back and I am in my car and driving and crying that I didn't want this life and then I get a text message and when I read it, it's from my dad so poof again my life is back to normal.................

So what does this dream teach me that different isn't always better, and to appreciate what we have..............I hope I do not have another dream like this..................


So has anyone else had nightmares like this, or what do you consider a nightmare?

16 comments:

'A Madeleines Photos and Parchments' said...

Scary dream for sure!
I wouldn't like it either.

Shelly said...

That almost sounds like you could make it into a movie- great lesson in it~

diane b said...

As I've got older I don't remember my dreams very often. I sometimes dream that I am missing the train or the boat or the plane.
I am finding out what fun it is to be a grandma but it sure is tiring.

orchid said...

Dearest Jo-Anne,
I DO dream during the night but not these kind of nightmare, and don't reamember much.
However, I can guess you must be relieved having the life you have now♪
Love you always, xoxo Miyako*

Crystal Pistol said...

I hate when I have nightmares. It upsets me for the whole day. I often dream my husband is unfaithful. He's not. But the dream shakes me to my core and I'm upset and sick to my stomach for hours. Sorry you had that dream. It's nice to wake and find things as they should be. :)

Thisisme. said...

Sorry you had that bad dream . Hopefully you were glad when you woke up and found that you had your old life back again! I'm never one to think that the grass is greener on the other side, because I know it's not!

Elsie said...

I absolutely hate starting my day off with a bad dream. It always throws me off for the day. Hugs!

becca said...

the funny thing is rarely remember my dreams ever

Jenn June said...

I rarely remember my dreams anymore. I hate it when I have those kinds of nightmares. I hope you sleep better tonight.

Jo-Anne's Rambling said...

Madeleine......Yes it was a dream I would rather had not remembered......

Shelly......It felt like movie but I was wondering what the hell it was trying to tell me....lol

Diane b....Most of my dreams are about me shopping.....lol

Miyako.....Thankfully I don't have nightmares or bad dreams very often

Crystal......Yes some nightmares can leave me feel rotten all day but thankfully I don't have them very ofte.....

Diane....Yes I like my life just the way it is.........

Elsie....Yes it does some dreams stay with me for ages during the day.....lol

Becca.......I remember most of mine even the ones I would rather not remember

Jenn....I will write about last nights sleep in todays post......

Teresa - in the Middle Side of Life said...

that would be a scary dream, for sure. the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the street, right?

Joanne said...

Thank God it was only a dream!
Blessings, Joanne

Burstsof bubbles said...

That is a scary dream. A while back I used to dream I was running and always out of breath and I hated it. Apparently that just means your not satisfied with your life or someone is competing with you.

Jo-Anne's Rambling said...

Teresa.......No the grass isn't always greener but so many people don't realise that......

Joanne.....Yes I was a glad it was just a dream

Bubbles......It was an upsetting dream and I was glad it was just a dream

Anonymous said...

Ah yes, different isn't always better. Although some days different looks pretty darn tempting.

In truth, this too shall pass. One way or the other. Either Tim will die in a driving accident. Or you will get sick of it and leave him. Or you won't ever leave and or ever accept it and you will just leave YOU.

If you haven't yet contacted Al-Anon, do it today. You can't change him. But for the sake of yourself and your children, you CAN change the way you handle it.

Sorry!

Kay in Hawaii
http://BizBitchblog.blogspot.com

Jo-Anne Meadows said...

Kay.......Don't have to say sorry for stating your opinion, I have heard of Al-Anon but have never contacted them.........

Now it's dads turn

Guess what, yesterday morning my sister Sandra rings to let me know she had to ring the ambos for dad, he was having trouble breathing an...