Monday is here again and this Monday I feel so so the glands in my neck are swollen and sore and get worse after I have something to eat and I have to eat as I was starting to feel sick in the tummy and needed food.
Anyway I am going to share something else about my darling husband Tim…………………..
When our first born daughter Kathy was born I was so tired after the delivery that I fell asleep and Tim sat beside me held Kathy in his arms for about 20 minutes and I think that time caused them to bond.
She has always been a daddy’s girl preferring her dad over her mum sometimes this has bothered me but it is what it is I cannot change it…………
In Tim’s eyes she can do little wrong note I said little not nothing which is good he can see that she has faults. When there is something going on between me and Kathy he will 9 times out of 10 take her side and she is the same she takes her dads side over mine………
Kathy is like both of her parents I can often see her dad in her but I can also see myself and she is the child both of us wanted, now I am not saying that we both didn’t want our other girls but we both wanted to have a baby straight after we got married……….but when it came to have our other girls Tim had to talk me into having a second child at the time we had her Kathy was 9 months old and I wasn’t sure I was ready to have a second child and then I had to convince Tim it was time to have our third child…………….
So does anyone else think that a child and parent can bond in those first minutes after birth?
I have often wondered if I had held Kathy more when she was first born would we be closer and have a stronger bond……………..