“Real friends won’t ask you to change who you are” have you heard this saying it makes one wonder what are real friends are they only those people who you have met face to face in the real world or do you count your online friends as real friends…………………….as everyone knows I do count my online friends as real friends in fact they may know me better than some of those who have met me in the flesh.
I share a lot of myself online as everyone knows it is just the way I am……………….but how about this would you change if someone tried to get you to change who you are would you or would you think no bloody way this is me take me the way I am or leave me your choice and your loss if you chose to walk away from our friendship…………….no one is going to make me change that said I did try to change my ways when years ago my sister Sue use these 5 words to describe me.
Aggressive, Abrupt, Rude, Judging and Insensitive as I never thought of myself as being judging, insensitive or aggressive although I could sometimes be rude or abrupt but I tried really hard to change those things as it came as a bit of a shock when Sue used those words to describe me.
Somewhere I saw this but I can’t remember where but I think it is pretty spot on so I am adding it to this post…………………….
The RIGHT people for you will love all the things about you that the WRONG people are intimidated by. Don’t change so people will like you. Be patient, keep being your awesome self, and pretty soon the RIGHT people will love the REAL you.