Are you a serious person? Or are you somewhat silly?
Or maybe you are a bit of both, in fact I think most of us are both. I like to think of myself as being both I can be silly at times and serious when it is needed but my husband Tim is more a serious person in fact I rarely see him laugh or even smile except when he is drunk and then he will say he is in a good mood and happy but in fact like most drunks he is just annoying………………..
I laugh most days and I am happy and can have moments when I am all bubbly inside I am that happy and excited about nothing really I just am. Tim however doesn’t get like that and I feel sorry for him at times because when I will ask him what makes him happy he will often not have an answer, although I know he loves his grandchildren having them around makes him happy just not on a day to day basis.
Being silly is good for us, it helps keep us young I feel people who rarely laugh or do silly things feel older than they are. I am turning 50 in a couple of weeks’ time but I do not feel like I am that old I generally think/feel like I am in my 20’s but that I think is normal for many of us as well.
Tim however will often say he feels old more like someone in their 70’s or 80’s and of course he is only 51, I do think the fact that he rarely laughs of acts in a silly way plays a part in how old he feels.