Yesterday I didn't get around to doing a post I was busy sorting out photos and writing letters to pen pals but I am up early again today and I have thoughts galore running through my head so while I wait for mum to pick me up so we can go and visit nan I am getting started on a post.
Do you ever wonder how people talk about you? Do you think people are always talking about you? Are you sure everyone has an opinion about you?
I have a sister who always seems to think the family are talking about her and that she is often the topic of conversation...............but sorry sis you are not.................lol
Someone once said if you knew how little people talk about you, you wouldn't think people talk little about you............or something like that.................
The point being generally speaking I think most people are more caught up in their own lives that they don't sit around gossiping about other people all the time, it is rare that I talk about my siblings to my husband or children and I don't they talk about me to their other half and children.
Do I talk about my children to my mum yes I do in fact the only person I ever gossip with is my mum and we will talk about my dad and my husband and sometimes my kids and yes sometimes my siblings but guess what we do not go around saying bad or negative things about them. If dad is annoying mum she will have a bitch to me about it and if Tim is pissing me off I will have a bitch to her about him.
Sometimes I will come upon my sisters chatting and will jokingly say “you talking about me” but you know to be honest I don’t really think they are and I really don’t care if they are……………also I do not automatically think if someone is talking about me they are saying bad or negative things about me maybe they are planning a surprise for me or talking about what to get me for my birthday or Christmas why is it that so many people automatically think people are saying bad things about them………maybe they themselves have a habit of talking badly about other people so they think if they do it everyone must do it.