tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post3262307152644550239..comments2024-03-30T00:25:46.669+11:00Comments on Jo-Anne's Ramblings: At long last I have one but hubby wants to act like it is his instead of mine I have only be waiting yearsJo-Anne's Ramblingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11418152399382818709noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-87605222894872439212011-08-09T09:37:32.717+10:002011-08-09T09:37:32.717+10:00Hi Desiree
As long as I have the car on Fridays a...Hi Desiree<br /><br />As long as I have the car on Fridays and any other day that I need it then I am happy.<br /><br />Hi Thisisme<br /><br />It is our car but I will still continue to call it my car......lol<br /><br />Hi Diane<br /><br />Yeah we will share it without fighting and fussing........lol<br /><br />Hi Yevisha<br /><br />I will drive safely I don't speed or do stupid things.......<br /><br />Hi Orchid<br /><br />Ther term "chauvinistic husband" would suit mine more often the not, that said he is also a loving and caring man. I am pleased yours isn't one.Yeah we have sorted out our the issue with the car it is ours but I will continue to call it mine.........lol<br /><br />Hi Skippy<br /><br />As far as I am concerned it is our car but I will still refer to it as mine and when I told hubby that he always said the next car would be mine and that it is in my name so it is mine he seemed alright with it he has his motorbike and I have the car, it's just the way it is....<br /><br />Hubby knows he was acting selfish when the car was delivered and has now stopped that after we talked it out.....Jo-Anne's Ramblingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11418152399382818709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-55077058834368742092011-08-09T01:55:25.717+10:002011-08-09T01:55:25.717+10:00I understand wanting your "own" car - an...I understand wanting your "own" car - and marriage has nothing to do with. Just because you are married doesn't mean some things can't be yours and his - just because you have your own side of the bed, your own bathroom sink or a chair that belongs to you doesn't make you any less happily married, so I don't think everything has to be "ours". We do share everything, but we refer to things as "his" and "hers" for a reason.<br /><br />In fact, in past generations, it has hurt the wife to not have some things of her own, cars included.<br /><br />We now only have one car, but for the first 15 years of our marriage we had two and they were understood to be "Mom's" and "Dad's" - we happily shared them, but it allowed each of us to take the responsibility for one car and not have one person take on both when it came to maintenance, tags, inspections, etc. And we always knew who was driving what.<br /><br />I do understand why you want this to be your car and it isn't selfish to think so.SkippyMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09479661523059481730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-56997900248332156122011-08-08T21:54:13.632+10:002011-08-08T21:54:13.632+10:00Hello, your eastern new friend
Oh, this dispute wo...Hello, your eastern new friend<br />Oh, this dispute won't happen to us. Because I don't have a license p:)<br />It is kind of understandable that man love to show off his new car. But sorry about your feeling. I hope you two could sort things out by now. <br />It won't fit in this situation. However, in Japan we have a word "chauvinistic husband". Japanee (or eastern) husband tend to have much more this kind of attitude toward his wife compared to wastern husband, I wonder. <br />Haha, my hubby is not. Lucky me☆orchid0324https://www.blogger.com/profile/01230850040531307075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-5896498502398074912011-08-08T20:03:42.908+10:002011-08-08T20:03:42.908+10:00nice wheels. i like the colour. drive safely and...nice wheels. i like the colour. drive safely and enjoyyevishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16146237718414705218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-19809177932047682122011-08-08T18:05:58.590+10:002011-08-08T18:05:58.590+10:00Woweee1 its a beauty. Hopefully new toy syndrome w...Woweee1 its a beauty. Hopefully new toy syndrome will wear off soon and you can settle down to sharing the driving without a fuss.diane bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12002292118984909883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-29171899487395419562011-08-08T17:50:44.263+10:002011-08-08T17:50:44.263+10:00Great news about the new car Jo-Anne. I do hope t...Great news about the new car Jo-Anne. I do hope that you sort out whose car it really is! LOL! Anyway, enjoy it - it looks really good and I love the colour.Southhamsdarlinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12285980805569582676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-62092606945275920662011-08-08T16:50:22.247+10:002011-08-08T16:50:22.247+10:00This is wonderful news, Jo-anne! Hopefully your hu...This is wonderful news, Jo-anne! Hopefully your hubby will soon get over the shine of a new car and allow you to commandeer the driver's seat without any argument :) I wish you many thousands of contented, safe and carefree driving!Desireehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01069419364783245762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-20084834035449014952011-08-08T13:25:08.518+10:002011-08-08T13:25:08.518+10:00Hi Teresa
Yeah I know it's only because it...Hi Teresa<br /><br />Yeah I know it's only because it's new that he wants to hog it and it won't last long.<br /><br />Hi Becca<br /><br />Yeah we have worked it out and it is only becuase it is new that we both feel like having a little tug of war over it but it really was all in fun...Jo-Anne's Ramblingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11418152399382818709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-23275076748368179722011-08-08T12:19:59.025+10:002011-08-08T12:19:59.025+10:00just like a man he has to hog the new toy. i hope ...just like a man he has to hog the new toy. i hope you guys work it out and you get to enjoy driving it soon it the mean time enjoy being chauffeured around.hugsRebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10213055916162799647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-58725264154959418392011-08-08T10:58:24.998+10:002011-08-08T10:58:24.998+10:00nice set of wheels. once the new wears off, he'...nice set of wheels. once the new wears off, he'll be wanting you to drive it around, right?Teresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09028107053575111027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-53720992650169634342011-08-08T10:50:09.113+10:002011-08-08T10:50:09.113+10:00Hi Barb
Yeah I do usually thing of our stuff as b...Hi Barb<br /><br />Yeah I do usually thing of our stuff as being ours not his or mine I was just haveing a moment when I told him it was suppose to be my car..........<br /><br />I was feeling annoyed because he wanted to drive it and it wasn't till we where in the car on our way that he said I could drive home but since I didn't think I was going to drive I didn't take my keys or licence so said I would not drive without my licence on me...........Jo-Anne's Ramblingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11418152399382818709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-3608098689806439122011-08-08T10:14:40.778+10:002011-08-08T10:14:40.778+10:00When you're married there should never be a yo...When you're married there should never be a yours and mine situation. It's both of yours isn't it? Sorry but hubby is sounding a bit selfish today! After all you do for your family I'd be letting you ride it till the cows come home!!BBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09432729957196570774noreply@blogger.com