tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post3381771057238330399..comments2024-03-30T02:58:32.407+11:00Comments on Jo-Anne's Ramblings: Do you hold a grudgeJo-Anne's Ramblingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11418152399382818709noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-25932661222853165652011-09-20T14:22:10.717+10:002011-09-20T14:22:10.717+10:00I have struggled with forgiveness and I am trying ...I have struggled with forgiveness and I am trying correct that. I hope your husband and his Dad patch things up.<br />Blessings, JoanneJoannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01701170619308062747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-7028393354204052472011-09-20T13:07:14.633+10:002011-09-20T13:07:14.633+10:00Hi Becca
Only time will tell but I do think they ...Hi Becca<br /><br />Only time will tell but I do think they will not patch it up....<br /><br />Hi Al<br /><br />Me too............Jo-Anne's Ramblingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11418152399382818709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-60252297275485277152011-09-20T10:53:58.148+10:002011-09-20T10:53:58.148+10:00I normally don't hold grudges because I usuall...I normally don't hold grudges because I usually forget about what it is we....uh...what was the question again?Al Penwasserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14052950809151897315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-74131987145758986072011-09-20T09:36:47.029+10:002011-09-20T09:36:47.029+10:00how sad i hope that does not happen and they can p...how sad i hope that does not happen and they can patch things upRebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10213055916162799647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-50097170022223702862011-09-20T07:34:05.695+10:002011-09-20T07:34:05.695+10:00Hi Jilda
I have told hubby that forgiveness is m...Hi Jilda <br /><br />I have told hubby that forgiveness is more about us then those who we are forgiving but he doesn't get it......<br />I said maybe he should just forgive his father for being a small minded short tempered man but no he said he will never forgive him............<br /><br />Hi Craziness abounds <br /><br />Holding a grudge is just a waste of energy in my opinion.....<br /><br />Hi Bouncin' Barb <br /><br />I think it is when you lose someone that you get an eye opening, it was after his mother passed that Tim decided to try and get along with his siblings.....<br /><br />Hi Green Girl in Wisconsin <br /><br />Yes I do know what you mean as some relationships are just too toxic.Jo-Anne's Ramblingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11418152399382818709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-46053311214120680302011-09-20T01:46:52.796+10:002011-09-20T01:46:52.796+10:00It's tough, but sometimes it's healthier t...It's tough, but sometimes it's healthier to just let people go out of your life. Not necessarily carry a grudge, but keep the distance between....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-30730344699484207062011-09-20T00:52:01.980+10:002011-09-20T00:52:01.980+10:00This is similar to the post i wrote last May when ...This is similar to the post i wrote last May when my brother died. We didn't speak for 13 years but I called him when he was in the hospital and spoke to him 2x. Then he passed and I'm glad that I made the effort. Hope hubby comes to terms with this and makes an effort. Even if his father tells him to piss off, he made an effort!BBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09432729957196570774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-55261611456601821802011-09-19T23:38:35.806+10:002011-09-19T23:38:35.806+10:00I don't hold grudges either. My daughter and e...I don't hold grudges either. My daughter and ex husband are champs at it and it never made any sense to me. I'm sorry about your father in law. That's sad. I hope they get past it and patch things up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-85261535872803001112011-09-19T23:31:24.663+10:002011-09-19T23:31:24.663+10:00sometimes we have to accept that things don't ...sometimes we have to accept that things don't get mended......my mother and some of my family members had a horrible chasm between them, and I prayed that the bridge would be rebuilt before she passed, but it wasn't. Sometimes, we have to let go, forgive, and go on with our lives and understand that others never will.Jildahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03997103724450287303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-22227620099939742642011-09-19T15:24:40.002+10:002011-09-19T15:24:40.002+10:00Hi Jamie
Yes it can be bad for your health if you...Hi Jamie<br /><br />Yes it can be bad for your health if you stew over things I had a great weekend thank you.<br /><br />Hi Teresa<br /><br />It is sad and it is not somthing we do in my family but some people have family members they just can not get along with which is sad.<br /><br />Hi Desiree<br /><br />Even though I do worry hubby will have regrets he has never had a good relationship with his father and for the most part not seeing his father is a good thing as his father has always put Tim down and made him feel like he wasn't good enough and that really upsets me.Jo-Anne's Ramblingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11418152399382818709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-45727039675967475302011-09-19T14:29:14.747+10:002011-09-19T14:29:14.747+10:00Both Jamie and Teresa have articulated my own feel...Both Jamie and Teresa have articulated my own feelings in this regard. It is sad when people hold grudges, but I also understand that it is sometimes necessary to walk away permanently from particularly negative, destructive relationships. I don't think that is holding a grudge. It is preserving ones right to peaceful coexistence.Desireehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01069419364783245762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-91737189720158262132011-09-19T12:48:43.936+10:002011-09-19T12:48:43.936+10:00it is very sad when people let "things" ...it is very sad when people let "things" get between their relationships. i know it's happened in my own family and it sucks. but, you can't make people do what they don't want to do, even if you are willing to take the step it doesn't mean they will.Teresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09028107053575111027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372897564928472255.post-91290237762783486912011-09-19T12:03:13.333+10:002011-09-19T12:03:13.333+10:00It is sad when people don't make amends before...It is sad when people don't make amends before it's too late. We are all human but holding a grudge is bad for your health.<br /><br />Hope this weekend has been a good one.<br /><br />:)Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18085622205448586156noreply@blogger.com